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Red Garnets • Garnet Rings • Garnet Meaning

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Red Garnets • Garnet Rings • Garnet Meaning

The garnet family of gemstones is one of the most underrated in the gem world. For the last century jewelers stocked red garnets heavily as the January birthstone, and then forgot about them for the rest of the year. This was a crime! Garnets are an ideal colored stone for use in jewelry. They come in every color but a true blue; they score a 7 on the Mohs Hardness scale and can stand up to regular wear in jewelry; and they are singularly refractive, a phenomenon of light performance that makes garnets brighter than other gems.

Although a garnet is commonly associated with the color red, these gemstones can be found in almost any color and are popular choices for jewelry of all types. By far the most popular garnet is the red garnet, although there are many other colors. Garnets can be worn every day in the form of earrings, rings, and necklaces.

Red Garnet: Pyrope and Almandine

Red Garnet: Pyrope and Almandine

The garnet that most people are familiar with is the red to brownish red variety known as pyrope (the gems on the far left). These have been used in jewelry for thousands of years (known as carbuncle) and are frequently found in antique pieces. One of the most important discoveries of this gem is in the Czech Republic where it has been mined for over 200 years. “Bohemian garnet jewelry” refers to antique pieces in silver and gold that are highly ornate and set with many cabochon or rose-cut pyropes from this location. Most pyropes today come from East Africa and the USA. The African stones are largely garnets from Mozambique, where the gems occur in larger sizes of a brick-red color. These gems make excellent jewelry because you can get a big look for a relatively low price. Our favorite pyropes come from Arizona where the red color is caused by chromium (the same coloring agent as ruby) resulting in a more pure, deep red that truly stunning. Unfortunately these gems are rare in larger sizes, but when we set them in rose gold the true red color is remarkable and doesn’t need size to shine.

The other red variety of garnet is known as almandine (the two gems on the right). These stones are usually a very dark red, tending on black, and can have a slight violet tint as opposed to the brown tint of pyrope. There are some classic American locations of almandine, including Idaho and Alaska, which we see in many gem collections. Some of the red almandines from Idaho are actually star garnets, where a cabochon cut shows a 6-ray star within the gem. These red garnets are perfect for the person looking for a dressy, rich red color at a price lower than a ruby or tourmaline.

Purple Garnets: Rhodolite and Umbalite

Purple Garnets: Rhodolite and Umbalite

Rhodolite garnets are the most commonly encountered raspberry red to purple garnet. Gemologically speaking rhodolite is a blend of pyrope and almandine but color-wise it is its own distinct gem. These are found in small quantities all over the world but the main source is Africa. The African stones tend to be a medium red base color, with rosey pink or violet secondary shades. One African variety called “gypsy rose garnet” tends to be more pinkish red and has become a favorite among gem collectors. While Africa is producing rhodolite in the most quantity Sri Lanka still produces some of the finest examples. The key difference is that Sri Lankan rhodolites have a richer base color: a deep bing-cherry red and an exceptionally rare grape-jelly purple color. Fortunately we have relationships with Sri Lankan lapidaries that make sure we are the first to see their selection, allowing us to buy larger examples of this rare gem for reasonable prices.

We are also starting to carry a variety of rhodolite known as umbalite. These are named after the Umba River where they are found in Tanzania. Unlike most African rhodolites the umbalites are a medium purple instead of a medium red color. We have found a wonderful source for these gems where they are precision faceted in great sizes for jewelry.

Green Garnet: Demantoid and Tsavorite

Green Garnet: Demantoid and Tsavorite

Demantoids were the first green garnet discovered in the 1880s. The classic mines were in the Ural Mountains of Russia which produced a fair amount of material until the deposit was exhausted in the 1920s. The majority were an intense peridot-green, with the rarest pieces being a deep emerald green color. Demantoid has worked up a cult following for one main reason: its brilliance. In fact demantoid is greek for “diamond-like” because these gems have an extremely high refractive index, resulting in a brilliance and scintillation that surpasses that of a diamond. Recently demantoids were discovered in Namibia and Madagascar that are lighter in tone, and usually a more blueish mint green which is stunning and more reasonably priced than the Russian material. These gems are very rare: the Madagascan stone at the far right in the above picture is the only demantoid we have at the moment!

Tsavorites (are also green garnets but they are chemically distinct and more available than demantoid. Tsavorites are members of the grossular garnet group and are found only in East Africa. The first discovery occurred in the Tsavo Park area of Kenya in the late 1960s. Tiffany and Company bought the first rough from the mine, named the species, and has promoted the gem ever since. After the initial find several mines were found in the Merelani Hills of Tanzania which has increased availability of this material.

Tsavorite is a beloved gemstone in our store. No other gem comes as close to pure emerald or kelly green color. As we say: tsavorites are what emeralds want to be when they grow up! Some of the finest custom pieces we have made have featured tsavorite garnets, including our line of Seahawks jewelry.The medium dark green (caused by chromium) is the most desirable color, but the chromium also inhibits growth of the gem. Therefore tsavorites are rare over 1ct and scarce over 3cts. We also like to stock some of the lesser known shades like mint green garnets from Merelani (the round gem at left). These gems contain trace amounts of vanadium which gives them a blue tint similar to that of a Columbian Emerald in color.

Orange Garnet: Spessartite and Hessonite

Orange Garnet: Spessartite and Hessonite

Garnets are one of the few gem families that product pure orange gems. The most famous variety of orange garnet is spessartite (the middle three gems above). Spessartite garnets are colored by a blend of manganese and iron. When the gem has more iron present the color tends to be an orangey red or flame color. When the manganese is predominant the color tends to be a golden yellow or light orange. When the coloring agents are in balance the gems are a rich medium orange which is reminiscent of Fanta soda- these rare gems are known as mandarin garnets. The first spessartites that were large enough for use in jewelry were found in Germany, then California. But it wasn’t until these gems were found in Namibia and Nigeria in the 1990s that the material was commercially available. Even now good quality stones over 1ct from these famous locations are quite rare, since the larger stones tend to have lots of inclusions. We are starting to carry some from a recent find in Loliondo Tanzania that are coming out in larger sizes and lower prices- so stay tuned!

On the other hand Hessonite garnets never occur in the mandarin orange shades but they do come in two very unique tones (the far left and right above). The oldest known hessonites are the rich and intense cinnamon colored stones from Sri Lanka. These hessonites can be quite orange but typically have a strong brown undertone that makes them more of an earth tone. On the opposite end of the spectrum are the “imperial” hessonites that are a straw-yellow to golden orange color. Hessonites make a great jewelry choice because you can find larger, 3-5ct gems for affordable prices and the color is great for statement jewelry.

The in-betweeners: Color Change, Malaya and Mali

The in-betweeners: Color Change, Malaya and Mali

Garnets are unique in that the different varieties of garnet frequently blend together to create new, distinct species. The most famous of these are color change garnets (the two gems on the right) which were found in the 1990s in Bekily, Madagascar. The prospector who found the gem initially thought they had found alexandrite because the stones they had unearthed could change color. These particular gems were a teal or grey-blue outside, and a raspberry red to purple in incandescent light. This discovery was the first time a color change garnet had been seen, and even more important it was the first time a blue garnet had ever been found. Just like alexandrite these gems are very rare in large sizes. A newer find in Tanzania is producing some larger sizes but the color change is not quite as dramatic as the initial Madagascan find. For June babies who can’t (or wont) afford alexandrite, natural color change garnet is visually identical at about 1/5th of the price, and is actually rarer!

The other famous in-betweeners are both African garnets. The first is known as Malaya (or Malaia) garnet: a blend of rhodolite and spessartite garnets. These gems range from a blush pink to a deep orange color, but are mostly known as a blend between pink and orange which results in a sunset colored gem that is quite beautiful. Some of these Malaya garnets color shift between a beige-brown to a pink color that we have never seen in any other gem (above left). The second in-betweener is known as Mali garnet: a blend between grossular (tsavorite family) and andradite (demantoid family). These gems all occur in the yellow and green spectrum.  The most common colors are a golden yellow and lime green, although we have seen brown, orange, green, and even colorless examples. The in-betweeners are gemological oddities that are not widely known, so even though they are rare they can be purchased affordably.

Federal Way Custom Jewelers has served the South Sound for over 70 years with garnet rings, earrings and more. Our showroom features incredible one of a kind pieces made in house, brilliant loose stones, and staff whose expertise is unparalleled. Visit FWCJ today!

Buying an engagement ring is a big deal — especially if it’s your first time and you’re planning a surprise proposal. You want the moment to be unforgettable, the ring to be perfect, and the reaction to be joyful.

But if you’re not careful, even small missteps during ring shopping can tip your partner off or result in a ring that misses the mark entirely.

To help you make the right choice without spoiling the surprise, here are five of the most common engagement ring shopping mistakes — and how to avoid them.

1. Not Doing Enough Research Before You Shop

Jumping into ring shopping without understanding the basics is one of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make. If you don’t know the difference between a round cut and a princess cut — or you assume bigger always means better — you risk buying a ring that doesn’t match your partner’s style or values.

What to Do Instead:

  • Learn the 5 C’s: Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, and Certification

  • Pay attention to the styles they admire (on friends, social media, etc.)

  • Browse ring types online before visiting a jeweler

Being informed gives you confidence, and it helps you spot quality and value when you see it.

2. Guessing Their Ring Size Without a Plan B

Getting the ring size wrong can turn a magical moment into a fumble — especially if the ring won’t go on, or worse, gets stuck. Asking them directly spoils the surprise, but guessing with no backup plan is risky.

What to Do Instead:

  • Secretly borrow one of their rings and have it sized

  • Ask a trusted friend or family member who might know

  • Use a ring sizing guide or tool while they’re sleeping (if you dare)

Pro Tip: If you have to guess, go slightly larger. It’s easier to resize down than up — and most jewelers, like FWCJ, offer complimentary resizing.

3. Talking Too Much or Being Obvious About Your Plans

If you start bringing up marriage or jewelry more than usual, your partner may suspect something’s up. Even casual mentions can start to unravel your surprise — especially if your partner is observant.

What to Do Instead:

  • Keep your research private (use incognito browsing!)

  • Enlist a trusted friend for feedback instead of asking them directly

  • Space out any ring-related conversations so they feel organic

The less you say, the more powerful your surprise will be.

4. Letting a Salesperson Talk You Into the Wrong Ring

When you walk into a jewelry store unprepared, it’s easy to get overwhelmed — and even easier to be upsold. A persuasive salesperson might convince you to buy something that looks impressive in-store, but doesn’t align with your partner’s taste or your budget.

What to Do Instead:

  • Set a clear budget before you go

  • Look for jewelers (like FWCJ) who focus on education, not upselling

  • Prioritize style and quality over size alone

Remember, your goal isn’t just to impress — it’s to choose a ring that feels like them.

5. Waiting Too Long to Start Shopping

This is a huge one — especially for surprise proposals. Many rings require adjustments, resizing, or customizations. Waiting until the last minute can mean shipping delays, limited inventory, or not enough time to make it perfect.

What to Do Instead:

  • Start shopping at least 6–8 weeks before your planned proposal date

  • Communicate with your jeweler about timelines and turnaround

  • Consider proposing with a temporary setting and finalizing the design together later

Planning ahead gives you room to breathe and keeps your proposal stress-free.

Final Thoughts: Get the Ring, Keep the Surprise

Buying an engagement ring doesn’t have to be stressful — even if you’re doing it all in secret. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can make confident decisions and deliver a magical moment your partner will never forget.

At FWCJ, we help first-time buyers every day — guiding you through the process, answering questions, and making sure your ring is as perfect as the proposal. Whether you’re just starting your search or ready to make a move, our team is here to help.

Start your journey todaySchedule an appointment or stop by our store to speak with a jeweler who understands the importance of your moment.

FAQs: Engagement Ring Shopping for First-Time Buyers

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What are the biggest mistakes on engagement rings?
Common mistakes include guessing ring size, shopping too late, buying without research, overspending, and choosing a ring based on trends instead of personal style.
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What should I know before going engagement ring shopping?
You should understand the 5 C’s (Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, Certification), know your budget, have a sense of your partner’s style, and leave time for resizing or custom work.
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What are the 5 C’s of buying a ring?

  • Cut – Determines sparkle

  • Color – Measures colorlessness of the diamond

  • Clarity – Refers to internal flaws or inclusions

  • Carat – The weight (and size) of the diamond

  • Certification – Confirms the diamond’s quality and grading

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Can I buy a ring without my partner knowing?
Yes! With the right strategy, you can choose a ring that fits their style and size without giving away the surprise. This blog covers exactly how to do it.