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Pink Tourmaline Rings – Engagement Gemstone Meaning Birthstone

Engagement Rings

Mid Century Rosy Pink Tourmaline Cocktail Ring
A Mid 20th Century Pink Tourmaline Cocktail Ring

Rasperry-pink 8ct Oval Tourmaline Engagement Ring Circa 1960s

Pink Tourmaline Rings: A pink tourmaline, or any tourmaline gemstone for that matter, is an excellent choice to set in your engagement ring. They are very affordable in today’s jewelry market, and there is a fair chance you can select a tourmaline gemstone that will make your engagement ring unique- and you can personalize the ring to guarantee its uniqueness.

Natural Tourmalines are available in any color and can even show more than one color in a single gemstone. Green is the most popular color among tourmalines, however, the pink-to-red tourmalines run a close second. Their crystals can grow quite large, and are found around the world, so Pink Tourmaline is relatively available, other than in particularly fine quality. This good news for those looking for a pink Tourmaline engagement ring! 

Pink Tourmaline gemstones can occur in every shade of pink! Magenta Tourmaline? Check. Hot Pink Tourmaline? Check. Baby Pink Tourmaline? Check. Peach Tourmaline? Check. When the color approaches red, the pink Tourmalines can also be called Rubellite Tourmaline, since they can mimic rubies in appearance. Each Tourmaline is unique, and is sure to complement most metals including white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum. We often sell Pink Tourmalines in solitaires when they are larger, but small to mid size Tourmalines look good accented with Diamonds. We have created a wide variety of Tourmaline rings of every style and also stock vintage Pink Tourmaline pieces. We have over 100 loose pink Tourmalines in stock! 

Hot Pink Tourmaline Wedding Set

Princess Cut Hot Pink Tourmaline in White Gold Engagement Ring with Framing Bands

Pink tourmaline is often a jeweler’s favorite stone and presents an excellent option for a an engagement ring. When shopping for pink Tourmaline rings, one of the most important factors is the quality of the pink tourmaline. Your jeweler should explain that the more vivid the pink and the brighter it is, the more valuable the Tourmaline gemstone will be. Pink tourmalines generally have one or two inclusions, and since they are a type III gemstone, these are totally acceptable so long as they don’t detract from the beauty of the gem. The key to a beautiful Tourmaline ring is in the cutting, and at Federal Way Custom Jewelers we source only the finest material, with precision cutting. In fact, we often have our Tourmalines re-cut to make sure that each one has maximum sparkle and impact on the hand. We are happy to advise our clients on how to select a gem and how to determine the quality and value of pink Tourmaline. 

Pink Tourmaline Meaning: A tourmaline gemstone is thought to be a stone of artistic expression and creativity- no matter which shape, size or color you choose. We also hear that the last Empress of China had an obsession for pink Tourmaline gemstones and had them on her pillow hoping for good dreams to occur. Today, historically, most Tourmalines come from Brazil, though the famed Chinese Empress’s tourmalines were mined in southern California, and today most of our Tourmaline is coming from East Africa- Nigeria is a particularly important source of pink tourmaline. Pink tourmaline is almost always natural or gently heat treated, so it is often worn as a healing gemstone and by natural gemstone collectors. 

Tourmaline is the October birthstone and the 8th anniversary gem, too!

Feel free to shop our Tourmalines online or schedule a visit to view our collection of Tourmaline in person. 

Buying an engagement ring is a big deal — especially if it’s your first time and you’re planning a surprise proposal. You want the moment to be unforgettable, the ring to be perfect, and the reaction to be joyful.

But if you’re not careful, even small missteps during ring shopping can tip your partner off or result in a ring that misses the mark entirely.

To help you make the right choice without spoiling the surprise, here are five of the most common engagement ring shopping mistakes — and how to avoid them.

1. Not Doing Enough Research Before You Shop

Jumping into ring shopping without understanding the basics is one of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make. If you don’t know the difference between a round cut and a princess cut — or you assume bigger always means better — you risk buying a ring that doesn’t match your partner’s style or values.

What to Do Instead:

  • Learn the 5 C’s: Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, and Certification

  • Pay attention to the styles they admire (on friends, social media, etc.)

  • Browse ring types online before visiting a jeweler

Being informed gives you confidence, and it helps you spot quality and value when you see it.

2. Guessing Their Ring Size Without a Plan B

Getting the ring size wrong can turn a magical moment into a fumble — especially if the ring won’t go on, or worse, gets stuck. Asking them directly spoils the surprise, but guessing with no backup plan is risky.

What to Do Instead:

  • Secretly borrow one of their rings and have it sized

  • Ask a trusted friend or family member who might know

  • Use a ring sizing guide or tool while they’re sleeping (if you dare)

Pro Tip: If you have to guess, go slightly larger. It’s easier to resize down than up — and most jewelers, like FWCJ, offer complimentary resizing.

3. Talking Too Much or Being Obvious About Your Plans

If you start bringing up marriage or jewelry more than usual, your partner may suspect something’s up. Even casual mentions can start to unravel your surprise — especially if your partner is observant.

What to Do Instead:

  • Keep your research private (use incognito browsing!)

  • Enlist a trusted friend for feedback instead of asking them directly

  • Space out any ring-related conversations so they feel organic

The less you say, the more powerful your surprise will be.

4. Letting a Salesperson Talk You Into the Wrong Ring

When you walk into a jewelry store unprepared, it’s easy to get overwhelmed — and even easier to be upsold. A persuasive salesperson might convince you to buy something that looks impressive in-store, but doesn’t align with your partner’s taste or your budget.

What to Do Instead:

  • Set a clear budget before you go

  • Look for jewelers (like FWCJ) who focus on education, not upselling

  • Prioritize style and quality over size alone

Remember, your goal isn’t just to impress — it’s to choose a ring that feels like them.

5. Waiting Too Long to Start Shopping

This is a huge one — especially for surprise proposals. Many rings require adjustments, resizing, or customizations. Waiting until the last minute can mean shipping delays, limited inventory, or not enough time to make it perfect.

What to Do Instead:

  • Start shopping at least 6–8 weeks before your planned proposal date

  • Communicate with your jeweler about timelines and turnaround

  • Consider proposing with a temporary setting and finalizing the design together later

Planning ahead gives you room to breathe and keeps your proposal stress-free.

Final Thoughts: Get the Ring, Keep the Surprise

Buying an engagement ring doesn’t have to be stressful — even if you’re doing it all in secret. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can make confident decisions and deliver a magical moment your partner will never forget.

At FWCJ, we help first-time buyers every day — guiding you through the process, answering questions, and making sure your ring is as perfect as the proposal. Whether you’re just starting your search or ready to make a move, our team is here to help.

Start your journey today — Schedule an appointment or stop by our store to speak with a jeweler who understands the importance of your moment.

FAQs: Engagement Ring Shopping for First-Time Buyers

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What are the biggest mistakes on engagement rings?
Common mistakes include guessing ring size, shopping too late, buying without research, overspending, and choosing a ring based on trends instead of personal style.
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What should I know before going engagement ring shopping?
You should understand the 5 C’s (Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, Certification), know your budget, have a sense of your partner’s style, and leave time for resizing or custom work.
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What are the 5 C’s of buying a ring?

  • Cut – Determines sparkle

  • Color – Measures colorlessness of the diamond

  • Clarity – Refers to internal flaws or inclusions

  • Carat – The weight (and size) of the diamond

  • Certification – Confirms the diamond’s quality and grading

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Can I buy a ring without my partner knowing?
Yes! With the right strategy, you can choose a ring that fits their style and size without giving away the surprise. This blog covers exactly how to do it.