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Oval African Amethyst 3-stone Engagement Ring

Amethyst Engagement Rings: One of the most popular colors of all the gemstones is purple, so clients also tend to love purple Amethyst rings. Amethysts are one of the more commonly encountered gemstones and can be found quite affordably in smaller sizes and lighter colors. But Amethyst can occur in every shade of purple, including rare deep violet Amethyst, as well as gems with blue or red flashes which are quite coveted today. 

Amethyst is a member of the Quartz mineral family, and is durable enough for everyday wear in an engagement ring so long as they are worn with care. With a protective setting and insurance, you have no issues. In fact, Amethysts are one of the ancient gemstones and have been worn since antiquity. As recently as the 1800s, the Amethyst was only permitted to be worn by Royalty or Bishops, and they were very rare. They were thought of as a luxury, and sold at prices exceeding any other gemstone! Changing society and new discoveries of Amethyst in South America made the gemstone more affordable and into reach of everyday citizens. 

Amethyst Engagement Rings:  Amethysts make some of the most impressive rings we sell. Since Amethyst occurs in larger crystals, we are able to sell large Amethysts, and lapidaries can cut them into unique and beautiful cuts. Federal Way Custom Jewelers is known for the quality of our Amethyst. While we sell light and medium toned purple Amethysts, we are particularly known for the dark purple Amethyst that is so coveted. Once known as Siberian Amethyst, we now source most of these gems from Morocco and Bolivia, and take care to find gems with blue and red secondary hues. These gems look great in rings of any color metal, and the cool tone of the Amethyst can look amazing with Diamond accents. We always have Amethyst rings in stock, both vintage items as well as custom designs, and would be happy to make something for you, too. The best part: the finest examples rarely exceed $1000 in price (for the gemstone)! 

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Edwardian Amethyst & Diamond Engagement Ring with Rare Deep Color

Amethyst Birthstone & Amethyst Meaning: The Amethyst is the birthstone of February, as such we sell many Amethyst pendants and Amethyst Earrings in addition to the rings. 

Amethysts are said to strengthen personal relationships and offer courage and clarity to those who wear them. Amethysts are thought to be natural tranquilizers and help with the relief of pain and stress. Also it is thought to balance mood swings and alleviate anger and anxiety. A beautiful amethyst engagement ring will make the perfect symbol for your special someone. It is also said that anyone who desires honor and good health, wealth and fame should wear this stone. The amethyst is also thought to resist drunkenness. However, this might be expecting a little much.

We hope you have enjoyed reading this article about Amethyst Engagement Rings. This would be a good time to check out our Amethyst related prices and Amethyst products in our online store.

 

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Buying an engagement ring is a big deal — especially if it’s your first time and you’re planning a surprise proposal. You want the moment to be unforgettable, the ring to be perfect, and the reaction to be joyful.

But if you’re not careful, even small missteps during ring shopping can tip your partner off or result in a ring that misses the mark entirely.

To help you make the right choice without spoiling the surprise, here are five of the most common engagement ring shopping mistakes — and how to avoid them.

1. Not Doing Enough Research Before You Shop

Jumping into ring shopping without understanding the basics is one of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make. If you don’t know the difference between a round cut and a princess cut — or you assume bigger always means better — you risk buying a ring that doesn’t match your partner’s style or values.

What to Do Instead:

  • Learn the 5 C’s: Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, and Certification

  • Pay attention to the styles they admire (on friends, social media, etc.)

  • Browse ring types online before visiting a jeweler

Being informed gives you confidence, and it helps you spot quality and value when you see it.

2. Guessing Their Ring Size Without a Plan B

Getting the ring size wrong can turn a magical moment into a fumble — especially if the ring won’t go on, or worse, gets stuck. Asking them directly spoils the surprise, but guessing with no backup plan is risky.

What to Do Instead:

  • Secretly borrow one of their rings and have it sized

  • Ask a trusted friend or family member who might know

  • Use a ring sizing guide or tool while they’re sleeping (if you dare)

Pro Tip: If you have to guess, go slightly larger. It’s easier to resize down than up — and most jewelers, like FWCJ, offer complimentary resizing.

3. Talking Too Much or Being Obvious About Your Plans

If you start bringing up marriage or jewelry more than usual, your partner may suspect something’s up. Even casual mentions can start to unravel your surprise — especially if your partner is observant.

What to Do Instead:

  • Keep your research private (use incognito browsing!)

  • Enlist a trusted friend for feedback instead of asking them directly

  • Space out any ring-related conversations so they feel organic

The less you say, the more powerful your surprise will be.

4. Letting a Salesperson Talk You Into the Wrong Ring

When you walk into a jewelry store unprepared, it’s easy to get overwhelmed — and even easier to be upsold. A persuasive salesperson might convince you to buy something that looks impressive in-store, but doesn’t align with your partner’s taste or your budget.

What to Do Instead:

  • Set a clear budget before you go

  • Look for jewelers (like FWCJ) who focus on education, not upselling

  • Prioritize style and quality over size alone

Remember, your goal isn’t just to impress — it’s to choose a ring that feels like them.

5. Waiting Too Long to Start Shopping

This is a huge one — especially for surprise proposals. Many rings require adjustments, resizing, or customizations. Waiting until the last minute can mean shipping delays, limited inventory, or not enough time to make it perfect.

What to Do Instead:

  • Start shopping at least 6–8 weeks before your planned proposal date

  • Communicate with your jeweler about timelines and turnaround

  • Consider proposing with a temporary setting and finalizing the design together later

Planning ahead gives you room to breathe and keeps your proposal stress-free.

Final Thoughts: Get the Ring, Keep the Surprise

Buying an engagement ring doesn’t have to be stressful — even if you’re doing it all in secret. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can make confident decisions and deliver a magical moment your partner will never forget.

At FWCJ, we help first-time buyers every day — guiding you through the process, answering questions, and making sure your ring is as perfect as the proposal. Whether you’re just starting your search or ready to make a move, our team is here to help.

Start your journey today — Schedule an appointment or stop by our store to speak with a jeweler who understands the importance of your moment.

FAQs: Engagement Ring Shopping for First-Time Buyers

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What are the biggest mistakes on engagement rings?
Common mistakes include guessing ring size, shopping too late, buying without research, overspending, and choosing a ring based on trends instead of personal style.
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What should I know before going engagement ring shopping?
You should understand the 5 C’s (Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, Certification), know your budget, have a sense of your partner’s style, and leave time for resizing or custom work.
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What are the 5 C’s of buying a ring?

  • Cut – Determines sparkle

  • Color – Measures colorlessness of the diamond

  • Clarity – Refers to internal flaws or inclusions

  • Carat – The weight (and size) of the diamond

  • Certification – Confirms the diamond’s quality and grading

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Can I buy a ring without my partner knowing?
Yes! With the right strategy, you can choose a ring that fits their style and size without giving away the surprise. This blog covers exactly how to do it.