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December Birthstones: Tanzanite Zircon Turquoise

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According to the American Gem Society, there are three birthstones that represent the month of December. These birthstones get their origin from different times and places- in India and Iran, Turquoise has been treasured since antiquity and became associated with the Sagittarius astrological sign; in southeast Asia, Zircon has powerful meaning, and in Europe where the color blue reigns supreme in December, Tanzanite was added as an alternate birthstones in the last century. The three December Birthstones are Tanzanite, Zircon and Turquoise. All three of these December Birthstones are lesser known but the beauty of them often rivals some of the finest precious gemstones more commonly seen in jewelry.

Tanzanite Rose Gold Pendant

A Tanzanite & Rose Gold Pendant

Let’s take a closer look at these three December Birthstones.

Tanzanite is the blue-purple variety of the mineral zoisite, and is named from the geographic location of the single source it comes from, Tanzania, and is one of the rarest birthstones in fine quality. Tanzanite is a relatively newly found gemstone, discovered in 1967, and named by Tiffany and Company- the first jeweler to use the gemstone in large numbers. Its blue-purple hue is caused by trace amounts of vanadium and when mixed with extreme heat, the blue-purple shades appear and darken to an almost Sapphire hue. The colors can range from a pale lavender to intense ultramarine, sometimes with violet undertones. The finest Tanzanites are a nearly Sapphire blue hue with a purple undertone. Tanzanite can display various colors when viewed from different angles, and is often cut in round or trillion shapes to bring out the notorious red flashes. The better the cut of the stone will highlight the attractive blue and violet hues, which will also lessen the effect by the undesirable brown tones that sometimes appear.

Tanzanite is not quite so hard as the Sapphires it is often substituted for, so it is better suited for earrings and pendants or special-occasion rings. Due to the rare blue jewel tone color of Tanzanite and its limited supply, this gemstone tends to be the priciest of the December birthstones. That said, even the finest of Tanzanites in sizes below 3cts can be found in the hundreds, not thousands, of dollars. Some of the most impressive jewels we have made have featured Tanzanite- we all remember the 8ct round Tanzanite solitaire engagement ring we made, and the 15ct trillion Tanzanite and Diamond necklace we custom designed. We are fortunate to have a great stock of Tanzanite jewelry and loose gemstones to choose from at every budget.

Blue Zircon Ring

Blue Zircon Ring From The Art Deco Period

Zircon is the second most valued December birthstone, and blue Zircon is the most traditional choice in the United States. Zircon, a natural gemstone available in a variety of colors spanning red, orange, yellow, green, blue and brown, is often confused with synthetic cubic zirconia, mostly because of the similarity in name and as both are good substitutes for Diamonds. That said, fine Zircon is a natural gemstone in its own right, and is quite beautiful in top quality. However, it is the blue Zircon that represents the December birthstone, and is available in shades of baby blue, aqua, bright blue, and even deep teal shades. Zircon has a very high refractive index which makes it one of the most sparkly of gemstones- so if you are looking for an impressive birthday gift, Zircon may be the perfect choice- and since it has a distinct appearance, we know she won’t own anything like it! 

The color differences in Zircon are caused by impurities, some of which can be slightly radioactive. Don’t worry ladies, you won’t need to carry around a Geiger Counter for these stones! Zircon is reported to be the oldest mineral on earth, and since it has this amazing history, it makes for a romantic gift. The December birth stone, Blue Zircon, is mined primarily in Cambodia, but has also been mined in Sri Lanka for thousands of years. While light blue gems under 5ct can be had very affordably, larger gems or those with a medium to dark teal blue shade are quite rare and costly. Some of our favorite December birthday gift ideas are antique or retro Zircon jewelry, popular in the Art Deco and post-War years, and still stylish today. Thus we keep a great selection of Blue Zircons mounted and loose for our clients to choose from, in both antique pieces and our custom designs. 

Turquoise is the most affordable, but also the most under-rated, December birthstone which has been used in jewelry since ancient times. It is known for its distinct color which ranges from a powdery blue to a robin’s egg blue- in fact, it is one of the few gemstones that has spawned it’s own color- turquoise blue. While it is commonly associated with sterling silver jewelry from the American southwest, the finest gems have been mined in Iran for millennia and used in fine rings and pendants for hundreds of years. A walk through a museum will show Turquoise beads 3,000 years old from Iran and the Inca in Peru, European Turquoise rings 500 years old, Navaho Turquoise and silver necklaces 150 years old, and modern pieces using Turquoise from newly discovered mines across the world. It is truly one of the most ancient and versatile of gems. We often have Turquoise item, especially Victorian examples set with Diamonds and mid century pieces in textural gold work, available in our antique & estate cases.

Mid 20th Century Turquoise Gold Starburst Pendant

Mid 20th Century Turquoise Gold Starburst Pendant

Turquoise has been used as a December birthstone for hundreds of years. Turquoise is relatively soft, which makes it ideal for cabochons and inlay work, but it also has to be protected in the setting when mounted as a Turquoise ring. If you have an antique Turquoise ring, we can often polish the gem to bring back its original luster, though it is hard to bring back the blue color in pieces that have oxidized. The biggest issue we face with Turquoise is finding natural gemstones of fine quality- many gems on the market are dyed or stabilized (a treatment process that uses plastics to fill them) which reduces the gem’s value and durability. We try to source only natural Turquoise from Iran or American mines. These gems can then be used as the focal point in a ring, pendant, bracelet, or any custom design you have in mind.

We hope you have enjoyed reading this article about the December Birthstones of Tanzanite, Zircon and Turquoise. To see some of the examples of these gemstones that we currently have in stock, visit our store – via the link below – and use the search module to find your way around.

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Buying an engagement ring is a big deal — especially if it’s your first time and you’re planning a surprise proposal. You want the moment to be unforgettable, the ring to be perfect, and the reaction to be joyful.

But if you’re not careful, even small missteps during ring shopping can tip your partner off or result in a ring that misses the mark entirely.

To help you make the right choice without spoiling the surprise, here are five of the most common engagement ring shopping mistakes — and how to avoid them.

1. Not Doing Enough Research Before You Shop

Jumping into ring shopping without understanding the basics is one of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make. If you don’t know the difference between a round cut and a princess cut — or you assume bigger always means better — you risk buying a ring that doesn’t match your partner’s style or values.

What to Do Instead:

  • Learn the 5 C’s: Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, and Certification

  • Pay attention to the styles they admire (on friends, social media, etc.)

  • Browse ring types online before visiting a jeweler

Being informed gives you confidence, and it helps you spot quality and value when you see it.

2. Guessing Their Ring Size Without a Plan B

Getting the ring size wrong can turn a magical moment into a fumble — especially if the ring won’t go on, or worse, gets stuck. Asking them directly spoils the surprise, but guessing with no backup plan is risky.

What to Do Instead:

  • Secretly borrow one of their rings and have it sized

  • Ask a trusted friend or family member who might know

  • Use a ring sizing guide or tool while they’re sleeping (if you dare)

Pro Tip: If you have to guess, go slightly larger. It’s easier to resize down than up — and most jewelers, like FWCJ, offer complimentary resizing.

3. Talking Too Much or Being Obvious About Your Plans

If you start bringing up marriage or jewelry more than usual, your partner may suspect something’s up. Even casual mentions can start to unravel your surprise — especially if your partner is observant.

What to Do Instead:

  • Keep your research private (use incognito browsing!)

  • Enlist a trusted friend for feedback instead of asking them directly

  • Space out any ring-related conversations so they feel organic

The less you say, the more powerful your surprise will be.

4. Letting a Salesperson Talk You Into the Wrong Ring

When you walk into a jewelry store unprepared, it’s easy to get overwhelmed — and even easier to be upsold. A persuasive salesperson might convince you to buy something that looks impressive in-store, but doesn’t align with your partner’s taste or your budget.

What to Do Instead:

  • Set a clear budget before you go

  • Look for jewelers (like FWCJ) who focus on education, not upselling

  • Prioritize style and quality over size alone

Remember, your goal isn’t just to impress — it’s to choose a ring that feels like them.

5. Waiting Too Long to Start Shopping

This is a huge one — especially for surprise proposals. Many rings require adjustments, resizing, or customizations. Waiting until the last minute can mean shipping delays, limited inventory, or not enough time to make it perfect.

What to Do Instead:

  • Start shopping at least 6–8 weeks before your planned proposal date

  • Communicate with your jeweler about timelines and turnaround

  • Consider proposing with a temporary setting and finalizing the design together later

Planning ahead gives you room to breathe and keeps your proposal stress-free.

Final Thoughts: Get the Ring, Keep the Surprise

Buying an engagement ring doesn’t have to be stressful — even if you’re doing it all in secret. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can make confident decisions and deliver a magical moment your partner will never forget.

At FWCJ, we help first-time buyers every day — guiding you through the process, answering questions, and making sure your ring is as perfect as the proposal. Whether you’re just starting your search or ready to make a move, our team is here to help.

Start your journey todaySchedule an appointment or stop by our store to speak with a jeweler who understands the importance of your moment.

FAQs: Engagement Ring Shopping for First-Time Buyers

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What are the biggest mistakes on engagement rings?
Common mistakes include guessing ring size, shopping too late, buying without research, overspending, and choosing a ring based on trends instead of personal style.
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What should I know before going engagement ring shopping?
You should understand the 5 C’s (Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat, Certification), know your budget, have a sense of your partner’s style, and leave time for resizing or custom work.
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What are the 5 C’s of buying a ring?

  • Cut – Determines sparkle

  • Color – Measures colorlessness of the diamond

  • Clarity – Refers to internal flaws or inclusions

  • Carat – The weight (and size) of the diamond

  • Certification – Confirms the diamond’s quality and grading

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Can I buy a ring without my partner knowing?
Yes! With the right strategy, you can choose a ring that fits their style and size without giving away the surprise. This blog covers exactly how to do it.